Dog Days, AI, and the Soul of Art

Summer’s in full swing — dog days, they’re called. Here in the high desert, days are hot, nights are cool, and the tourist rush is over ’til autumn. Plus it’s monsoon season, which means swoon-worthy skies. Being a sky person, it’s all good in my book.

But I’m also an ocean person. After nearly eight great years in the Southwest, I still miss the Atlantic and spontaneous trips “down the shore,” where sun, sand, and gulls mingle with tides that swiftly wash your troubles away (followed by ice cream, always). Sigh…

Either way, inspiration’s never in short supply. Lately I’ve been creating small abstracts for a gallery, but I’m itching to balance that with large works — some in progress, others waiting their turn. The wheels never stop.

(Warning: philosophical ramble ahead.)

Occasionally though, my passion bumps up against the outside world. With AI gaining all sorts of momentum, questions bubble up. Questions like: Will people continue to value art made by hand? The union of mind, spirit, and brush that creates one-of-a-kind expressions — will those become relics as AI grows more proficient at mimicking what was previously only achieved by the human touch?

We seem to be perched on a collective edge. The stuff of science fiction is sitting squarely on our doorstep, and AI’s potential is astounding, opening worlds beyond imagination. But what does it mean for us?

I believe — whether realized or not — that right now people are craving the real, the genuine: bare toes on grass, hands in dirt tending deliciously imperfect tomatoes, strumming a guitar, reading original literature, slathering paint on canvas. Things that make our souls feel alive, in ways quick fixes and constant electronic connection cannot.

Because at the heart of it, the value of human-made work isn’t just in the finished piece, it’s in the lived moments embedded there. The smell of rain before a monsoon, the salty sting of the sea, the way love can lift you or break you — these experiences seep into a brushstroke, a note, a line of prose. You may not be able to name it, but you can feel the hand behind it and the spirit within it — signatures in every piece of art, carrying the imprint of a soul that has been somewhere.

And here’s a fun twist: I asked AI what it thought about all this. In its words: “AI can reproduce beauty, cleverness, even emotional resonance — but it can’t have been there. It reflects what’s already in the room. Human creativity, at its best, builds the room and invites you in. And maybe that’s the crux: AI can give output, but humans give presence.” 

And presence, after all, is what we fall in love with. 

Yes, every era fears new technology. Maybe it’s just the speed of this change that feels unsettling — as if we’re living in the remnants of a world already past, being asked to catch up. And I can’t help but wonder if future generations will even have a tangible sense of humanity’s creative fabric … versus perfect simulation. 

Time will tell.

For now, I say, indulge your senses with real art. Make it. Visit it. Buy it. Show it. Share it. Love it. We may need it more than ever.

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SPEAKING OF PAINT SLATHERING:

I’ve got two (already filled) single day workshops in October, but there are openings for November’s version of my 3-day Unleashing Your Creativity workshop. And just added, a 6-week Oil Painting Immersion class in early 2026; details coming soon.

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Til next time – remember:
“Everybody needs beauty as well as bread.” —John Muir

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Apologies for that last “Spring Things” email!

Apparently I pressed a wrong button. (Happens, right?)

I’ve been migrating my blog posts over to my newsletter format, which you should be receiving via saxton@patriciaaxton.com (and which is why that last email may have seemed like a duplicate from earlier this year). Clearly it’s not become an exact science yet.

PS: And then there are folks telling me to switch over to Substack. So many options. Too many. Thank you for hanging in there while I navigate the various terrains.

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Spring Things

Spring! My favorite season, when the world comes alive with fresh everything: new flowers popping up, eager to dazzle; morning’s extra ruckus of bird songs; butterflies fluttering and bumblebees buzzing and creeks flowing; more sunshine, more hope, and more color – and sometimes that color lands on my canvases.

So, in between larger works in progress, I’m expanding my mini Golden Hour Series with a fresh color palette, like those shown above. Bold, bright, and a little bit sassy – because the golden hour can make you feel that full of life! 

Sometimes the light on the land here is soul-moving, washing over you with a sense of the divine. Other times it simply smacks of joy. These are about that joy, woven into small paintings of Sedona’s famous red rocks.

 

More Creativity Please

Bring it on! I love seeing people stretch their creative wings and discover new expressions. It’s like watching flower petals unfurl, and I’m always impressed by what comes through my students.

My next “Unleashing Your Creativity” workshop will be on May 21, 22 & 23. In addition to prompts and other inspirations, I’ve been sharing more live demos using different mediums (a few shown below). Fun + informative = good stuff.

I would love to have you join us!

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And some surprises . . .

I’ve got a couple of secret projects up my sleeve. Oh the mystery… But saying it out loud keeps me committed to following through. So, you’ve heard it here. Updates to come when revealing is ready.

– until next time –

“Creativity is magic. Don’t examine it too closely.”

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Creativity!

 

We sure live in wild times, huh. Some good, some ugly, some filled with hope and promise and possibility.

And while I may not know how to speed up the good stuff or how to solve the world’s ills, I do know a little something about creativity. Much of that is from decades of experience (oh but how quickly they go by!) as a creative professional. Like a muscle that grows stronger with use, creativity only expands.

An artist is never done. Ideas are never gone. The drive, and the thrill, for creating something from nothing never stops. There are different stages, of course – some “less exciting” but satisfying nonetheless, where practice happens and skills are honed; some “more exciting”, like when breakthroughs break through, when plateaus are crossed and newly inspired worlds open up that leave you wonder-filled and giddy.

Another part of what I know is that we humans are incredibly creative beings, each and every one of us, whose creativity can be expressed in a multitude of ways from language to science to the broad spectrum of the arts, and on and on and on.

Whatever it is, these seeds of imagination, these inspired thoughts and actions that lead to creations of all kinds ­– I find all of it irresistible! Give me a pencil point and I’ll create a thousand visual versions. Give me a blank canvas and there’ll be twenty more waiting their turn.

But there’s something else I truly love about creativity… which is seeing what others create. How amazing we can be! And I have a special soft spot for those who don’t think they’re “creative”; especially seeing them accomplish something that an hour before wasn’t an inkling in their thinking.

And beyond that – the very act of making something with your hands is good for your soul. In fact, there’s actual scientific reasoning behind it, which escapes me at the moment so I’ll leave that for another day – but I do know it to be true.

 

ALL THAT SAID …

 

 

UNLEASHING YOUR CREATIVITY

 

I welcome you to join my 4–part “Unleashing Your Creativity” class, meeting each Friday afternoon in February at the Sedona Arts Center. Painting with acrylic, oil, or watercolor, you’ll be encouraged, nurtured, and guided every step of the way. 

Beginner? – that’s great! Experienced? – that’s great, too! 

Whatever your artistic level, this class is an invitation to expand your imagination, experiment, ask questions, find answers, and make art in a supportive environment. It’s about permission to play and freedom to explore. It’s about tools to learn and rules to break!

There will be prompts and direction (and maybe even some homework!). There will be color and collaboration and camaraderie and lots of creating. Getting messy is optional, but welcome. Every Friday afternoon, leave your cares at the door and prepare for fresh possibility. REGISTER HERE!

 

PS: Let me know if you’d like this kind of class offered again as a consecutive-day workshop (as opposed to once a week). A little slow out of the 2025 gate, I’m now getting around to planning ahead! Private mentoring is also available.

 

—  visit patriciasaxton.com to see my full fine art portfolio  —

 

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Stepping Into 2025

 

 

WHAT STORIES WILL WE WRITE?

 

I don’t know about you, but 2024 felt exhausting to me!

Even so, through all the time and effort and the this and the that, there were some superb bright spots – and at the end of the day (or year), those count the most. Much of my world revolves around art and creativity, pursuits of beauty and peace, a lookout for magic and the valuing of deep connection – so with those as measuring sticks, I feel much gratitude. That said, hopefully we learn from the more stressful bits, adjust going forward and write an even better story.

Meanwhile I’ve made a little video compilation of some of 2024’s art pieces sold and adventures had, as a kind of marker of time and a welcoming for the year to come. I hope you enjoy it, and I hope you find your own ways to honor where you’ve been and to invite goodness in with every step.

 

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When Pencils Meet Ideas

With my Drawing Class over, Illustration Workshop complete, and my Creativity Workshop on the horizon, part of me is in teacher mode, so I thought it a good time to answer a pressing question some of you have asked! … which is:

What’s the difference between drawing and illustration?

Aren’t they the same thing? … Well, yes and no.

DRAWING is pretty much as straight forward as it sounds. A subject is chosen, let’s say a bowl of fruit, which is then recreated using pencils, ink or charcoal. Styles and techniques vary, and the subject may be interpreted realistically, simplistically, or as an unrefined sketch – but the subject is still being represented as a bowl of fruit.

ILLUSTRATIONS can be representational (think botanical, anatomical, medical, architectural) – however, they become more than a drawing, and often a different animal entirely, when pencils meet ideas.

An illustration visually interprets an idea. It problem-solves how best to depict a narrative, a feeling, thought or emotion, often relying heavily on imagination. And while an illustration might be executed in the form of a drawing, the stylistic range is much broader  – it could be painted, collaged with paper or made with a mixture of mediums, all of which open whole new doors to creative expression.

For example, instead of a simply drawing of a bowl of fruit, the fruit might be rendered to look like it’s made of flower petals. An illustration can also be a brilliant New Yorker magazine cartoon. Or a business promotion. Or maybe the adventures of a cat, a fiddle, a dish and a spoon. Or the life of a beagle who imagines himself a pilot. Or, of course, a book-reading dragon. The possibilities are endless!

So.

Drawing tells us about a thing.

Illustration tells us a story.

And there you have it.

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UPCOMING CLASSES AND WORKSHOPS

Next up, a 3-day workshop on November 5-7 called Unleashing Your Creativity. On Fridays in January I’ll teach a Writing & Illustration a Children’s Book class, then a class version of Unleashing Your Creativity on Fridays in February. All are held at the Sedona Arts Center. Join me if you can!

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Postcards from Austria

First, a note: Something is amiss with my blog. Recent posts that I’ve shared with you have (for the most part, I believe) arrived in your email inbox without the accompanying pictures (also with fonts changing, which you may not notice, but I definitely do!). Finding the solution has been harder than expected and is most frustrating – so my apologies for the less interesting visuals you might be seeing. Your patience is appreciated! For the fully pictured as-intended version, please visit the blog itself. 😉 


Art Retreat Extraordinaire

Mission complete – the 2024 Art Retreat in Austria was beautiful! Art was made. Exquisite food was consumed. Spectacular views were breathed in at every turn. Friendships were discovered and deepened and memories were carved. Magic walked among us.

There was painting from life and painting from pictures – and certainly no shortage of inspiration. We were wowed at the gorgeous mountain lake known as Lünersee (and for some, a blissful relief when finishing the lengthy drive up zig-zaggy Alpine roads going ever higher!). We reveled in the sheer immensity of the Alps during our foraging-for-herbs expedition, and were awed by the nighttime James Turrell SkySpace art installation. We were regularly treated to flower-filled window boxes in charming towns and the sweet chime of church bells on the hour. And we all left a piece of our hearts in this magnificently picturesque country.

I am deeply grateful to our Chalet-M hosts Franz and Laurie for our top-notch accommodations and spoiling us with incredible, drool-worthy meals, for making us feel cared for in every way, and for our seamless teamwork in creating an amazing experience that will long be cherished.

And to my “retreaters” – what a great group! I couldn’t have asked for a better, more cohesive collection of souls on our maiden Austrian Art Retreat. Living, laughing, painting and exploring together, it felt like the best kind of family.

‘Til the next time… Es war eine wunderbare Zeit!

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There are far too many picture choices to make into actual postcards, so please enjoy this special  1-minute reel of highlights displayed below!

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Where It Began

 

At five years old, this little girl with sparkly glasses from the small town of Warren, New Jersey, was about to embark on the trip of a lifetime.

She would travel with her family across the Atlantic on board the original Queen Mary ocean liner (where, among many other adventures, she’d befriend a waiter named Tony, who would sneak her extra boxes of Sugar Pops, her then favorite cereal), landing on the shores of Southampton, England. From there the six-some would travel by train to Karlsruhe, Germany. (Of note, one brother was inadvertently delivered elsewhere, after strolling onto a car of the train that broke off and headed to France. Fortunately, despite initial panic, he was found and the family remained in tact!)

Once settled into a little house on a street called Gretelweg, she would walk a cobblestoned path to the bus that brought her to kindergarten, where she mostly remembers drawing a lot. She would also play with the neighborhood children, develop a fondness for Toblerone chocolate, visit castles and lap up their lore, travel on winding alpine roads, gape at tulip fields, and collect a doll from each of the umpteen countries they’d visit before arriving home a year later, by then fluent in German.

It was an impressionable age and may very well, as her father suggested, have unwittingly sparked her love for seeing other parts of the world.

While it wasn’t a long stay, Austria had been one of the family’s travel stops. Twenty something years later, she would again visit Germany (and their old house on Gretelweg, which looked even smaller then!) and would again see Austria, noting the similarly striking beauty of both countries. And now, about 60 years later, she’s off once more to Austria – this time to lead an art retreat in the Alps.

Life works in mysterious ways, doesn’t it? I kind of like that. It’s not exactly where it started, but close enough. And part of me will bring the spirit of “little me” along on this next adventure, where I’ll also, no doubt, be drawing a lot and playing with friends.

Side note: I wrote this pre–Austria trip, and have since come and gone (it was glorious), but am just now getting caught up here on my blog. Retreat details coming next!

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Let’s Be Creative Together

 

IT’S TIME!

I’ve been drawing as long as I can remember. And those of you who’ve known me a long time, know that I’ve been professionally designing, illustrating, writing and painting for decades! All in all, pretty much a lifetime of creating. And I dearly love what I’m able to do – but something felt missing. That element? Sharing what I know in a more official way – and maybe, just maybe, helping you to tap into your own magic.

Soooo, in early September I’ll be teaching a class in Drawing at the Sedona Arts Center in my beautiful town of Sedona, Arizona. In October I’ll lead a 3-day Illustration Workshop, followed in November by a 3-day workshop that I’m calling Unleashing Your Creativity. In January I’ll teach a Writing & Illustration a Children’s Book class, and in February a class version of Unleashing Your Creativity.

Beginner as well as intermediate level artists are encouraged to join in. Whatever your experience, my goal for each offering is to help you explore and expand both your skills and your creativity. To stretch, play and grow. To feel inspired, build confidence and honor your own artistic expression. And to enjoy the process while receiving plenty of individualized attention.

Registration is now open! You’ll find full descriptions, pricing and dates at the Sedona Arts Center website – this link will take you to my instructor page – just click on any of the classes you’re interested in.

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THE TRUTH IS, WHEN YOU DRAW SOMETHING, YOU SEE IT DIFFERENTLY AND SOMEHOW MORE PROFOUNDLY. AND WHEN YOU PAINT SOMETHING, YOU CONNECT TO A WORLD YOU NEVER KNEW EXISTED. IN ALL FORMS OF CREATIVITY, YOU’RE MAKING SOMETHING FROM NOTHING – AS IF BY MAGIC. BUT THE MAGIC IS ALREADY IN YOU, JUST WAITING TO BE TAPPED.

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Passion or Bust!

 

Does anyone else feel like time is moving at warp speed? Every year it seems faster, but, so far 2024 feels crazy fast. Like a relentless, churning sea rushing against an invisible clock.

One of these days I’d like to master time. It’s been said that time exists so that everything doesn’t happen at once. Which sort of leads to another line of thinking that the past, present and future are actually occurring at the same time – which is a hard concept to wrap one’s head around, which can then leave us with the classic wisdom of the present moment being the only one that matters – the only one where we have any tangible influence – and that that is where we should bestow our precious attention.

It’s pretty fair to say that I don’t always know where the time goes, but there’s lots of attention on creativity over here, so I’ll share some of what’s been happening around the studio.

 

 

ART COMMISSIONS continue to be flowing. (Including a work in progress that aligns with this Year of the Dragon, making for the ethereal company of marvelous, fantastical beasts while I paint!) Not all artists like commission work, as there’s an extra pressure involved painting for someone rather than painting whatever flows. That said, I appreciate my commissioning clientele – they respect an intrinsic need for artistic freedom; they understand that while I can produce what they’ve asked for, there’s very much an element of “as the spirit moves” to my work. (After many long years at the proverbial drawing table, this was inevitable.) “Passion or bust!” another someone once said, and I concur.

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APRIL saw a nice feature article on yours truly in Sedona Monthly, a well-respected and beautifully produced magazine. (Read the feature here.) There’s a lot of talent in this town, so I extend many thanks to the team over there for including mine.

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IN MAY Sedona was graced by the Aurora Borealis.(wow!) The wildflowers and cacti are blooming now, and the golden sun on the red rocks continues to hold my heart hostage.

 

 

IN OTHER NEWS, I’ll be teaching several classes/workshops this fall at the Sedona Arts Center. I’m not sure what took me so long to offer these, but I’m looking forward to them all. Lots of planning … stay tuned for announcements on those!

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THE MOUNTAINS ARE CALLING AND I MUST GO . . .

Also stay tuned for postcards from Austria. (Maybe not actual postcards? Although I like the idea now that I think of it …) Considering how quickly the months are flying by, our Art Retreat in Austria is just around the corner. August 4 – 10 to be precise, and it’s going to be grand. I see it as a bit of a “life, art and the universe” experience where everyone can not only expand their creative expression but, in the process, just might infuse some hand-and-heart-made love, joy and beauty into this very messy world we live in. Cheers to that, I say!

 

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Austrian Alps Art Retreat: August 4 – 10, 2024

 

Would you like to …
Make art in a gorgeous, relaxing setting?
Amp up your drawing skills?  Learn to paint?
Find new ways of seeing the world?
Feed your spirit?
Share the joy of creativity?

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Join us for a week of making art guided by lifelong artist Patricia Saxton. There will be learning and feasting and camaraderie. There will be mountains, lakes, forests, cows and goats. There will be soaking in the incredible summer beauty of the Austrian Alps.

All experience levels are welcome.
Come along, be inspired, create some magic and nurture your soul. It’ll be amazing!

–  e a r l y  b i r d  o f f e r –

Register with required downpayment by December 1, 2023 to receive 10% off the listed price for the retreat.

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For the best experience with personal attention, the retreat is limited to 10 participants.
Click here for the details, itinerary, pricing and sign-up form!

 

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New Work / Show Time!

Paint dry. Signatures done. Hardware on. Five new pieces have been delivered and are now on display for The Azadi Exhibition at Sedona, Arizona’s Rumi Tree Art Gallery.

This was an inspired – and fast – turnaround. I’m just now surfacing from the creative process (which often feels like a spirit driven, caffeine-fueled alternate universe…) and wanted to share this update with you.

About five weeks before the exhibit opening date, gallery owner and fellow artist Sahar Paydar felt moved to make the theme of the show about Azadi, which translates to liberty in her native Persian language – and so, The Azadi Exhibition was born. Featuring four women artists and focusing on Art, Women and Liberty, I was all in. It meant switching creative gears in a short period of time, but I loved, loved, loved the concept and realized it was a perfect opportunity to begin a series of portraits that had been on my never-ending list of ideas for quite a while already.

I conjured up and completed three strong women for the exhibit (more are waiting in my wings), and I’ve called them I Am Freedom, I Am Grace and I Am Wisdom. Painted in oil, they represent empowering qualities that I believe all women inherently possess; qualities I feel should be embraced, honored, and unabashedly lived.

In addition to the portraits, I included two of my joy-activated acrylic pieces in the show: Joie, and The Grove.

These five new original paintings (shown below) are available for purchase at Rumi Tree Art Gallery; email rumitreeartgallery@gmail.com or call 928-862-4221. (You can contact me with questions as well.)

Clockwise from top left: I Am Freedom, I Am Grace, I Am Wisdom, all three.
Each piece is 20 x 20 x 1.5″, oil on canvas.

On left: Joie, 10 x 20 x 1.5″, acrylic on canvas.
On right: The Grove, 10 x 20 x 1.5″, acrylic on canvas.

More original works are available through patriciasaxton.com, where (as you may already know) I also offer giclee prints of select pieces.

Enjoy the holiday season! Warmest wishes to you and may love abound.
~ Patricia

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After the Leap

 

I’m a bit giddy about my new series of abstract paintings, so why am I choosing to share this pen and ink drawing from my early days? Blame it on Mercury Retrograde? Or the sense that my own sails are raised and ready for new adventure?

A symbolic piece then, of voyage; of casting off and setting sail; a metaphorical departure from the safety of one shore to the wilds of an unknown other – in this case, a marked departure from an innate, well-practiced tendency towards detail to a deeper, and ultimately freer, realm of instinctive expression. It’s exciting to look ahead, but the occasional revisit to where you’ve come from can also be worthwhile – like puzzle pieces of how you got from A to B to P to Z.

Here I can feel my younger self dipping her calligraphy pen in and out of the ink jar to get just the right amount of liquid on the nib (delighting in each stroke that didn’t bleed or drip!), her steady hand and sharp eyes playing with light and shadow to create a recognizable two-dimensional thing, the pleasure of her then new-found discovery of knowing when to stop. I was in college for this piece, and someone (a professor?) had the brilliant idea of turning it into a metal engraving – I’m guessing to make prints of some sort, which I don’t recall happening  – but I still have the engraving, which somehow feels like a work of art in its own right.

 

 

In this moment though, perhaps this pen & ink sailboat jumped out because the past two years have seen quite a lot of casting off and setting sail. I took a leap – from the sea, from green mountains and lush gardens and quaint, old-moneyed towns, to clever cactus and red rocks that reach into your soul and great big breathable skies with extra shiny stars. A leap from knowing lots of people nearby to knowing no one. From a home of 20 years, to 3 homes within one year. There’s been the shedding of tired emotions. Letting go of old stories. Creating new stories with new faces and new hearts. Making new paintings, writing new poems. The waters have been choppy – other times smoother than silk (even marvelous dare I say) – and I have not one regret.

Now as I sit poised for another step in this high-desert adventure, I thank my younger self for her artistic diligence; I thank my illustrator self for her imagination and storytelling, and the landscape and pear-painting me for her care – just as I welcome my current self’s desire to throw paint around willy-nilly. Because what’s created with joy will breed joy. Or so one hopes!

Here’s to everyone’s adventure, whatever form it takes. It can look like moving across the country with dreams yelling in your pocket, but it might not. Adventures start inside, and may just take you around the corner, but if you hear the call – whatever calls to you – I think you ought to listen hard.

 

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She took a leap of faith and grew her wings on the way down. – David Brinkley

Don’t refuse to go on an occasional wild goose chase — that’s what wild geese are for. – Author Unknown

You’ll always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. – Wayne Gretzky

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Unity, Peace & the Autumn Equinox

“We are each other’s harvest; we are each other’s business; we are each other’s magnitude and bond.” ~ Gwendolyn Brooks

 

 

September 21st is the officially designated International Day of Peace. Events coordinated by the United Nations, various peace organizations and interested local groups are intended to create a wave of peace around the globe, or at least to put some hefty, prayerful weight behind that intention.

For one day, concentrated collections of humanity unite with one hope: peace.

But that’s not all. It’s also the Fall Equinox – one of two times a year when day and night are of equal length. Where spring’s equinox ushers in longer days and more light, the autumn equinox provides a period of balance before the darker, more introspective days of winter. It’s a time to appreciate the reaping of harvest; a time of giving thanks.

For whatever reason, no doubt influenced by my father’s rural roots, I’ve always found the cycles of the natural world both intriguing and instructive … and I’m kind of giddy that the International Day of Peace coincides with the day on nature’s calendar that exemplifies balance and fruition. Makes me smile. As if there just might be some divine order amid the madness.

My artwork (shown above) was created in honor of this unified effort – the inspired energies focusing on peace across our beautiful planet, on this most balanced day of the year.

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I don’t usually explain my art, but I’ll break form for this one. The colors of fall blend to represent all people, all colors, all walks of life. The bird – a symbol of hope, promise and freedom – faces forward with optimism, its swirly feathers joyful. The word “unity” is filled with a world map, signifying (perhaps obviously) global camaraderie. The two lines of vertical text show the word “peace” in a multitude of languages. The stark black and white background represents the balance of light and dark, and the idea that hard-edged barriers can be fluidly crossed and complemented. I tried to show that simplicity that can be distilled from complexity, and that a sense of groundedness can coexist with dreams and maybe even lift us in flight towards the possibility of peace.

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Here’s to dreams ~  Patricia

 

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Ah, Cupid…

“Be of love a little more careful than of anything.”
 ~ E. E. Cummings

“Two Tulips” / © Patricia Saxton / oil on canvas

Ah, Cupid. Fickle, passionate, God of Love whose darting arrows don’t always hit the target … we celebrate you nonetheless, along with the eternal stuff of poetry and song, and hearts that beat a little faster.

Some celebrate you with devotion to whispers of sweet nothings and a worship of chocolate and roses. For some it’s more bitter-pill than joyful-tonic. Others prefer to spend the day with their cats. (I get that.)

I can count a few especially thoughtful, romantic Valentine Days. But as the story goes, those went all wrong in the end (beware the man who writes you poetry, a friend once told me…), so I turn instead to unscathed memories of shared Valentines from grammar school, or the hand-made kind we gave to our parents, with big red construction paper hearts and white lace around the edges, filled with unabashed adoration. And those we give our own children marked with a thousand x’s and o’s.

Beyond that I admit to a dose of romantic cynicism – but even so, I am a believer in love. I don’t mean the love-you-think-is-love that hurts. I mean the fact that love heals, love lifts, love binds, love seeds and nourishes and shines a light; love enhances, love honors. Every task we do, every word we utter, every hand we shake, is better if there’s love in it. Love is the purpose. Love is the cause. Love is the root of all good that ever was or will be.

So let sweethearts swoon. Let the day be thick with roses and chocolates for all who’ve ever felt the exultation – or the sting – from Cupid’s arrows, all who’ve felt their heart swell, their color blush, their energy soar and their selfishness cease in the face of unbridled love.

And with or without a “Valentine”, maybe we can share a little extra heart today. For self, for others, for your pets, for your garden, for your books, for your bicycle, for your favorite chair. Even for the guy trying to make a left turn on a busy street. Raise up the heart quotient all around.

Celebrate love. Read some literary candy (a selection included below for you and your cat to enjoy). Give someone a cupcake. And smile, because – despite or by means of Cupid – love still exists in this mad world.

Love is Not All (Sonnet XXX), Edna St. Vincent Millay

Love is not all: it is not meat nor drink
Nor slumber nor a roof against the rain;
Nor yet a floating spar to men that sink
And rise and sink and rise and sink again;
Love can not fill the thickened lung with breath,
Nor clean the blood, nor set the fractured bone;
Yet many a man is making friends with death
Even as I speak, for lack of love alone.
It well may be that in a difficult hour,
Pinned down by pain and moaning for release,
Or nagged by want past resolution’s power,
I might be driven to sell your love for peace,
Or trade the memory of this night for food.
It well may be. I do not think I would.

18th Sonnet, William Shakespeare

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimm’d;
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance or nature’s changing course untrimm’d;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest;
Nor shall Death brag thou wander’st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou growest:
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this and this gives life to thee.

How Do I Love Thee? (Sonnet 43), Elizabeth Barrett Browning

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,—I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Love’s Philosophy, Percy Bysshe Shelley

The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In another’s being mingle–
Why not I with thine?

See, the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower could be forgiven
If it disdained its brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea;–
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?

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